With Will Gethin
Cherry Wood, nr Marshfield, South Gloucestershire
Friday 6 – Sunday 8 September, 2019
Is there a next step in life calling you? Or a desire to explore? This weekend is a chance to move through the stages of The Hero’s Journey, the mythical transformation process described by Joseph Campbell, in the ‘Special World’ of this 45-acre woodland.
A celebrated mythologist, Joseph Campbell was also famous for his mantra for a meaningful life, ‘Follow your Bliss’. What is your deepest passion, the thing that makes you feel most alive? Often it’s the thing you can’t not do despite any resistance you may feel, hence Campbell later said what he really meant was ‘Follow Your Blisters’! This retreat invites you to open the door to your bliss. Supported by the fellowship of a group of men and experienced guides, you can journey towards your chosen new horizon, facing and learning from any fear and resistance that arises and opening to new inspiration and direction.
This journey of inner and outer discovery is relevant for men of all ages looking to grow or evolve in some aspect of their life – be it a personal quest or crisis, creative project, or community or work-related endeavour. We’ll also explore and reevaluate the role of the modern “hero” and what it means to be a man in these more collective and gender-equal times.
Complete with sharing circles around the campfire, ritual space, and time for silent reflection in the woods, this is a rare opportunity to connect deeply with yourself, others and nature. It’s a chance to find a fresh sense of purpose, to feel revived, resourced and enlivened, ready to move forward with your chosen dream or goal.
Cherry Wood: is a stunning 45-acre, sustainable woodland designed and managed with permaculture principles. It’s also home to The Cherry Wood Project green woodwork school. Complete with beautifully hand-crafted indoor and outdoor spaces, a lake for wild swimming, a romantic wood fired bush-bath and a sauna, 95% of materials come from the wood itself and much of the food on courses is grown or foraged from the land. Off grid with no mains power or wifi, the location offers a restorative digital detox. You’ll eat wonderful fresh local food prepared in the woodland’s outdoor kitchen and cooked on wood fires. The compost toilets are airy and have fantastic views! See more at www.cherrywoodproject.co.uk.
Will Gethin: as a holistic explorer and travel writer, Will has explored many edge-of-the-world frontiers on a quest for enlivened living. Founder of comms & events agency Conscious Frontiers which gives voice to organisations and people engaged in creating a better world, he gives talks and workshops on The Hero’s Journey and is a qualified meditation teacher. More info: www.consciousfrontiers.com; www.willgethin.com
From 7pm Friday until 4pm Sunday.
Retreat Cost: (including food)
- £245 Camping in the woods
- £255 Shared yurt dorm
- £295 Double bed cabin
- £305 double bed yurt
£50 discount on each of the above prices. Concessions will be considered on a case by case basis.
Food costs are included in the price. We will share some cooking and other practical tasks between us.
Outline for the weekend and the stages of the Journey
Dedicating his life to the study of world mythology, Joseph Campbell discovered ‘one story’ at the heart of all great myths. Mapping the stages of this ‘Hero’s Journey’, he provided a powerful template for storytelling which has been been applied to countless films, from Star Wars and The Matrix to The Wizard of Oz. The story typically starts with the protagonist having their world shaken up. They go on a journey and face tests, challenges and their greatest fears, and return redeemed and transformed through their trials. The Hero’s Journey is also a map for our own lives and the challenges we face.
For the purposes of this weekend workshop, we have condensed the Journey into five core stages.
Call to Adventure
The Call to Adventure is an invitation to grow, face your fears and make changes in your life. Often precipitated by a crisis or a period of restlessness, the call invites you to re-evaluate your life and to “Follow Your Bliss”, as Campbell called it. What is life calling you to do right now? What is the thing that you can’t not do, in spite of any fear and resistance? What new goal would bring your life more meaning and fire up your passion? How can you best be of service to others? We set our personal intentions and prepare to journey towards our chosen destination.
On the Road
Committing to the Journey, we set off on the road. It’s a time for forging new allies and connections, raising morale and finding new strengths, assets and insights. Supported by the group, we may also learn new skills useful for overcoming challenges on our journey ahead.
The Dark Wood
In “The Dark Wood” in the ancient stories is where heroes fought dragons and monsters. In modern stories, heroes and heroines often face internal dragons, fears and rejected parts of themselves, and integrate them as they grow towards more wholeness, self-acceptance and inner peace. In the safetly held space of the woodland, you will have the chance to co-create your ultimate challenge, what Campbell called “The Ordeal”. Whether a physical, outer challenge or an internal one, this is your chance to move through a major obstacle that stands in the way of you fulfilling your intention.
As Carl Jung once said, “The gold is in the dark”. And so it is that in meeting our greatest challenges and fears we have the chance to find our greatest gifts in them. The gift might be a new perception, understanding or clarity; an inner shift, or more love and acceptance for yourself. Part of you has died and something new has been born – part of the reward comes from facing that death.
We have the choice to stay stuck or make that change. In the stories, returning home, the hero or heroine must integrate any changes and redefine his/her place in the home tribe. He/she also has the chance to put to good use his/her discovered “unused potentials”, contributing to the welfare and happiness of the wider community. Taking silent time to reflect in the woodland, and in discussions around the campfire, we crystallise our learnings from the Journey, and consider any adjustments needed to meet our intentions when we return to the outside world.
The workshop’s facilitator Will Gethin shares his personal experience of the Hero’s Journey
In the year 2000, after the break up of my marriage, I followed a ‘Call to Adventure’, taking a year’s sabbatical from my PR job in London and travelling to India to explore its spirituality and pursue my dream of becoming a travel writer. Along the way I faced my fears and experienced a psychological breakdown that ultimately became a ‘breakthrough’: I found new strength, left the ‘London rat race’, and created a more meaningful and enlivening life. Starting to write about this life-changing period in what has since evolved into a novel (in progress), I discovered my real-life experiences mirrored the stages of the Hero’s Journey, and decided I’d like to use my lived experience of this transformation process to support others to move forward in their lives.
Participants from recent Hero’s Journey men’s retreats in 2018, said:
“Powerful and cathartic.” John Harley
“A remarkably enriching adventure!” Stuart Finlator
“Very enlightening. I would definitely recommend it to others.” Keith Howat
“Well worth the value of the treasure I found!“ Lawrence Hughes
“Truth is an amazing thing to find.” Gregory Pike
“Thank you for holding the space for us with so much heart, and creating a hero’s journey that has enriched the lives and hearts of everyone who attended. I look forward to more!” Ewan Powrie
“I loved spending these few days in this beautiful place with a great bunch of guys! The whole process was challenging in a good way, rewarding and very nourishing. Thank you!” Jeremie Dufaud
I had a great weekend and came out feeling very strong with my inner workings. A very moving, deep and enlightening process which I will never forget. Thomas Hutchinson
This weekend completely inspired me and restored my faith in what it means to commit to the journey of becoming the best version of a man you can be. Thank you so much.” Scott H, Bristol.
The journey presented a good framework for transformation. The variety of circle sharing, embodied activities, lake swimming, sauna, time alone, and eating together made for a very rich and intense weekend; the journey has begun! Robin Jones
Great workshop, really energising and a wonderful collection of men. Well done! Luke Hutcheson
An amazing weekend in the woods. Same again next year please! Daniel Dobbie
In the Media
The Guardian featured our April 2018 Hero’s Journey retreat in this article about the growing Men’s Movement.
Kindred Spirit magazine: ran this article by Will Gethin exploring the use of The Hero’s Journey in the Movies
Resurgence & Ecologist magazine ran this Hero’s Journey article by Will Gethin exploring Joseph Campbell’s mantra for living ‘Follow Your Bliss’
Campfire Convention ran this article by Will Gethin sharing tips for following your bliss, entitled ‘Pathways to Bliss’.
BCFM Radio interviewed Will Gethin about The Hero’s Journey